I'm taking a science class this semester. I've been thinking about a career change and have been taking pre-requisite classes for nursing. I sometimes wonder why I inflict the pain that is school on myself when I already have an education, a good job, and promising career.
Back on topic, I have this big crush on my lab partner. He's tall, dark, handsome, bright, a little soft spoken, and seems genuinely kind. And, he's married with kids. I know that marriage and kids doesn't mean anything about a persons sexual attractions. However, it is a pretty good indicator.
The bigger problem is that if there wasn't a ring, wife, family, the situation wouldn't be much different for me. I don't exactly have gaydar. And it's not exactly wise or even safe to start flirting with some guy in class that you've developed a bit of a crush on.
So, if anyone has encountered this problem before, and have some break through advice on how to gage the sexuality of a person, I'd love to hear.... for the next time I develop an innocent crush and want to test the waters.